Last week, our family entered a new chapter—Finn started nursery. As the youngest in our family, this milestone felt bittersweet. It’s not just about him starting nursery; it’s about the end of an era. For two years, my days revolved around being home with him, and now, that chapter is closing. This first week brought so many emotions, a few tears (for both of us), and some unexpected lessons.
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Day 1: A Confident Walk-In (But No Goodbye)
On Finn’s first day, he didn’t fully understand what was happening. He walked into nursery with his little giraffe backpack, completely unaware that I’d be leaving him there. The nursery staff gently suggested I leave while he wasn’t looking, to make the transition easier. So, there was no goodbye.
I stood outside the door, feeling a strange mix of pride and heartbreak. While I was relieved that he wasn’t upset, I couldn’t shake the thought of how he’d feel once he realised I wasn’t there.
“It’s moments like these that remind you how parenting is equal parts joy and heartache.”
Day 2: Starting to Understand
By the second day, Finn was starting to catch on. As we approached the door, he clung to me tightly, his little hands gripping my coat. He was hesitant and unsure, and my heart ached knowing he needed reassurance. Saying goodbye was much harder this time, for both of us.
The staff were so kind and supportive, gently guiding him inside while reassuring me he’d be okay. As I walked away, I reminded myself that these small steps of independence are as important for him as they are for me.
Day 3: Tears for Both of Us
The third day was the hardest. As soon as we got to the door, Finn started crying—real, heart-wrenching tears. He clung to me, his little body shaking, and I felt an overwhelming wave of guilt and sadness. The staff stepped in to help, but it didn’t make leaving any easier.
Yes, I know this photo isn’t the most aesthetic—it’s the only one I managed to take! It’s Finn with his little giraffe backpack, ready for his first day. It’s real life, and that’s what makes it special.
Ten minutes after I left, the nursery called to tell me he’d settled in and was happily playing. Their kindness in reassuring me meant so much. Knowing he was okay didn’t erase the difficulty of those ten minutes, but it made the rest of my day a little lighter.
A Short Week, But a Big Step
Finn only stayed for two hours a day during his first week, which felt like barely enough time for me to catch up on the mountain of housework I’ve been putting off for two years. But for Finn, those two hours were a long time to be away from me and surrounded by new people.
“It’s easy to underestimate how big these small moments feel for our little ones. But seeing him adapt, even a little, made me realise how important they are.”
Lessons I Learned
If you’re about to send your little one to nursery, here are a few things I’ve learned from our first week:
- Every child adjusts differently: It’s okay if it takes time for them to settle in. Be patient with them (and yourself).
- Pack the night before: Trust me, it makes those hectic mornings so much easier.
- Trust the nursery staff: They’re there to support you and your child, and their experience is invaluable.
- It’s okay to feel all the feelings: This is a big step for both of you. Give yourself grace to process it.
Reflections on a New Chapter
Starting nursery is a huge milestone for Finn, but it’s also the beginning of a new season for me as a mum. For so long, my life has revolved around being at home with him, and now I’m learning to navigate this new chapter. It’s bittersweet, but watching Finn grow and thrive makes every moment worth it.
Finn’s little giraffe backpack was his constant companion this week, and he absolutely loves it. If you’re looking for something similar for your little one, you can find it here on Amazon.
Have you been through this milestone with your child? How did you handle it? I’d love to hear your stories in the comments. Let’s support each other through these big moments!
