You know that moment when you finally sit down at the dinner table, and your toddler takes one look at the meal and declares, “I don’t like that!”—even if they happily ate it yesterday?
It’s exhausting, isn’t it? You put effort into making a meal, hoping for a peaceful family dinner, and instead, it turns into an absolute battle of wills. Some nights, you find yourself making a second (or third!) meal just to get something—anything—into their little belly. And by the time you’re done, your own dinner is cold.
If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone. The good news? There is a way to make family dinners less stressful, even with a picky toddler at the table. And no, it doesn’t involve becoming a gourmet chef or sneaking spinach into everything. 😉
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The Secret: One Meal for Everyone
Here it is—the simple shift that changed everything for our family dinners: I stopped cooking separate meals and started making one meal for the whole family.
Sounds obvious, right? But when you’ve got a toddler who refuses anything green (or mushy or “funny-looking”), it can feel impossible. For a long time, I found myself making a “kid meal” and an adult meal, just to avoid the drama. But all it did was wear me out—and it didn’t help my toddler become a better eater.
When I decided to make one meal and offer it to everyone, a few things happened:
- Dinner became less stressful because I wasn’t juggling multiple meals.
- My toddler started trying more foods, just by seeing the rest of us eating them.
- Our mealtimes felt more connected, because we were all sharing the same experience.
Is it always perfect? Nope. But I can tell you, it’s a game-changer.
If you’re feeling stuck in short-order cook mode, I want you to know there’s another way—and it’s simpler than you think.
Tips to Get Your Toddler On Board (Without the Dinner Battles)
I know what you might be thinking: “That sounds great, but there’s no way my toddler will eat what we’re eating!” I get it. Picky toddlers are no joke. But there are a few simple strategies that make serving one meal to the whole family a lot easier.
Here’s what worked for us (and I think it’ll help you too!):
1. Include One “Safe” Food at Every Meal
Make sure there’s always at least one food on the table that your toddler already likes. It might be fruit, plain pasta, bread, or cheese—whatever works! This gives them something to eat without making a separate meal.
2. Offer Choices (Within Limits)
Kids love feeling like they have some control. Offer them simple choices that you’re happy with either way:
- “Do you want broccoli or carrots with dinner?”
- “Would you like your chicken plain or with sauce?”
Another way to give children some control, is to do dinner as ‘self-service’, when they fill up their own plate they will often choose the things that adults pick up – and it’s their own choice!
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3. No Pressure at the Table
This one was hard for me at first! But the less pressure we put on our toddlers to take “just one bite,” the more relaxed they are. We focus on making meals a positive experience—no bribing, no begging, no battles.
4. Keep Portions Tiny
Toddlers get overwhelmed by big servings. Start with a very small portion (like one bite-sized piece of chicken or one spoonful of peas). They can always ask for more!
5. Stay Consistent
The first few meals might be tough. Some nights, your toddler might only eat the bread on their plate—and that’s okay. Keep offering a variety of foods, and over time they’ll get more comfortable trying new things.
Ready for Some Easy Meal Ideas?
If you’re thinking, “Okay, this sounds great, but what meals do I actually make that my toddler AND my partner will eat?”—I’ve got you covered!
I put together a free list of 21 toddler-friendly meals that the whole family can enjoy. These are simple, no-fuss ideas that have worked in our house (even with a picky eater!). No more cooking separate dinners or falling back on chicken nuggets every night.
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Why Family Dinners Matter (Even with Toddlers!)
It’s easy to wonder if all this effort is worth it—especially when your toddler’s plate looks untouched at the end of the meal. But sharing one meal as a family does so much more than just fill bellies.
Here’s why it’s worth sticking with:
1. It Builds Healthy Eating Habits
Research shows that kids who eat with their families are more likely to try new foods and develop balanced eating habits over time. Even if they’re just watching you eat veggies now, they’re learning!
2. It Takes the Pressure Off You
Making one meal for everyone simplifies your life. No more short-order cook stress. No more wondering if they’ll eat the “kid food” you made on the side. Just one meal—and you can actually enjoy it too!
3. It Makes Mealtime More Enjoyable
Family dinners are about more than food. They’re a chance to slow down, connect, and enjoy each other’s company (even if someone’s wearing their dinner on their face!).
The more relaxed and consistent you are, the easier mealtime becomes. And the best part? You’re laying the groundwork for years of happy family dinners to come.
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You’ve Got This!
I know how draining mealtime can feel when you’ve got a picky toddler at the table—but it really does get easier. By sticking with one family meal, offering no-pressure choices, and staying consistent, you’re setting the stage for stress-free dinners in the long run.
And if you’re wondering what to cook that the whole family will actually eat, don’t worry—I’ve got you covered! Just remember to grab my free list of toddler-friendly meal ideas above, and take the guesswork out of dinner tonight.
You deserve to enjoy dinner too!
Cheering you on,
Jordan 💛
